Are you a DUFF?
If people talk to you mostly for the purpose of ‘you’ hooking ‘them’ up with one of your pretty friend, or if you are considered to be the smartest one out of your friends but still is ‘nil’ on the DATES bar… then, welcome to the club- “DUFF”, it isn't that bad.
QUESTION: Is it normal that my girlfriend's past live-in affects me?
STORY: I have been dating this girl for approx. 10 months now. Everything was wonderful for initial 6 months and then I came to know about her past bf (she had not told me). When I asked she accepted and later also told me she was in live-in with him for 1 year! That totally broke me. We tried to continue keeping past behind but I learnt that she had been in touch with him until I came to know about him. She claimed it was normal conversation once in a while with him but I could not trust her any more, so I asked for access to her phone calls/email and fb (which she gave). She also deactivated her fb and created new a/c and also changed her no to block that guy. Nothing major has gone wrong since then but I am not able to trust her anymore.
QUESTION: Can you help me out? I have been trying and trying but she doesn't get off my mind.
STORY:
I loved this girl. Loved her a lot more than anyone could ever imagine. She left me for a richer guy. She said he has a BMW while I have a Chevrolet. I saw her pressing her lips against him when I had gone for a movie with my friends. It hurts so much. It was a 7 year relationship. I'm 29. I really need help.