Question: I loved a girl and she also loved me but I doubted her, did a crime. And now she is not talking to me she has been hurted a lot. She told me that she will not let anyone to hurt her again. I apologized and tried every possible effort but she is not understanding. I love her so much and I just die every day thinking about what I have done with her. What should I do? Please help me.
ANSWER:
Dear Arman,
It might sound bad, but 20 and 18 is too young to be in love but yes there is always hope so let’s see what we can do to help you.
QUESTION: Is it normal that my girlfriend's past live-in affects me?
STORY: I have been dating this girl for approx. 10 months now. Everything was wonderful for initial 6 months and then I came to know about her past bf (she had not told me). When I asked she accepted and later also told me she was in live-in with him for 1 year! That totally broke me. We tried to continue keeping past behind but I learnt that she had been in touch with him until I came to know about him. She claimed it was normal conversation once in a while with him but I could not trust her any more, so I asked for access to her phone calls/email and fb (which she gave). She also deactivated her fb and created new a/c and also changed her no to block that guy. Nothing major has gone wrong since then but I am not able to trust her anymore.
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