QUESTION: Pyar bht jyada hote hue v agr relationship me bht jyada jhagre ho to kya relationship khatm kr dena sahi rahega?
STORY: Hamare bich har choti bat pe jhagra hota h or jhagra maai hi krti hu kyunki mujhe gussa bhot jyada aata h or ye jante hue v wo hmesha wahi krte h jiske wajah se hmko gussa aata h.
ANSWER: Getting angry on such issues is completely normal, And where there is love, there are fights too.
Dear Sonika Roy,
I really think ending up a relationship on the basis of anger is appropriate. You shouldn't doubt your relationship for the reason of his doing stuff that irritates you, because he probably does that to tease you so later he can say sorry and have the chance of making you smile again. I know it's stupid but when we are in love we does all that stupid stuff.
Sometimes, our anger is an inherited poison that we have within ourselves, which not only affects us but affects the other person equally. So, what I'll suggest to you is talk this out.
Meet up some place nice, or else if you can't do call him or better video call him (the more physical presence, the better the emotions can be conveyed) share your doubt with him and try not to be angry in fact, be extremely polite. Tell him how these things can be problematic and don't threaten by "You know I feel angry because of this" instead use "These things sometimes triggers me to be angry on you and I don't wanna be angry on you", change of some words can change the whole meaning.
And don't take it that seriously, that you'll prepare to end the relationship up. If you both love each other I'm sure you'll get through this together.
P.S. In case you have any extra doubts you know how to reach me. Or else you can talk to me personally on blog's social media pages.
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