Q & A: Idk's question- Moving on from ex.

Dear Idk,

When a girl truly loves you, she sticks by you even through thick and thin and only then does she deserves to be cried for. You ex didn’t and hence, you shouldn’t be sad ‘cause of her. Take this as a learning experience, Keep whatever this situation taught you and leave this thing right here.

If you won’t move on how will you meet the right one? You won’t correct? So keep moving forward, because to be honest every ‘wrong’ gives us a ‘right’ no matter how big or painful that is, it’s just to make you better believe me.

Once you’ll stop remembering the moments you both spent together, you’ll realize how good this breakup was for you.

After you’ll be done with my tricks and your guilt, you’ll be thankful to her for breaking up with you.

So here we go.

First of all, if she’d ever loved you, “Money” wouldn’t have mattered. So trust me it’s not your fault.

Now secondly, you want to get her off of your mind, right? I’ll tell you exactly what to do.

But before that… do this, think about the problems you’ve faced for her.

Now tell me, after she left you for such a stupid reason, do you think she still deserves your love and is worth waiting for?

No right? But you still have feelings for her. So what do you think you should actually have?

Happiness... Am I right? (And no your ex wasn’t in the choices and trust me you deserve happiness, so stick to that)

Good! Now that you know what you deserve, keep your will strong.

How will you keep your will strong? Remember my “Repeat technique”? That’s what you have to do, and in case, you forgot or don’t know how it’s done? I’ll tell you again.

What you have to do is repeat in your mind the thing that you want (Or speak, whatever you feel comfortable and more effective). In your case, what you want… is to be happy and get your ex off your mind. So you’ll say “I’M HAPPY. AND SHE DONT DESERVE ME SO I DON’T CARE ABOUT HER”. I know this sounds stupid, will seem more even stupider when you’ll try, but trust me it’ll make you smile and it does really work.

A lot of my friends have tried this technique and it works like wonder. So trust me it’ll work… Just try it once. And remember at first you’ll have struggle following it but once you’ll get handy, you’ll realize the value of this gem. And if you still can’t understand this don’t worry I’ll do a post on this trick next week for sure.

*Note: Do this every time her thought pops up in your mind*

Now, there are a lot more stuff that you can do and luckily I’ve already done a post on it, so this is where you need to go.

And lastly, trust me you deserve to be happy. I know it’s difficult because it was a 7 year old relationship but trust me if someone doesn’t love you back time spent together doesn’t really matter and you just have to let that person go, it’s important for both of you.

And if you need further help, you know how to reach me. 

Love, Megha.

#spreadSmiles