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Are Men The Reason Behind Gender Inequality?- Gender Wars.

LET THE FIGHT BEGIN.


 P.S.  If you don't wanna read this much feel free to scroll down and just read the MESSAGE because that's more important.

Yesterday while having a deep conversation with myself after watching an online series named as Man's World, a question occurred in my mind. 
Its funny how almost all men blame women thinking that all the good things are given to women and almost all women blame men for being males in this male dominating society. 
So whose fault is it really?.. Men? for being given almost all the rights even to publicly harass a women and then at the end warn her that if she goes against him he'll rape her. Or is it the fault of women who give birth to kids like that.. and well some of them being the types who think if a girl goes out to study or do a job or even if she is friendly and nice with anyone she have a bad character? Whose fault is it? Any idea? No, right? 
You can't blame both, neither can you blame the other gender completely. The truth is just like neither of our five fingers are equal, nor are the people from a particular gender. Every person has a distinguish personality, you can't blame one person because someone of their gender has done something bad to you. It's like 'my wife doesn't love me so I hate my mom too', who does that really?

Guys always complaint about how women always go from 'I am a feminist I want equality' to wanting them to lift the heavy stuff and pull chair for her before she sits and open doors for her. I know you all think women are unfair to you but truth is THEY ARE NOT. How? well guys always say women are weak they are not strong enough. Why can't they do all the hard work by themselves then? 
Well first thing first, hard work isn't just lifting heavy stuff. Now second thing, she is not weak. How can you call her weak? I mean look at your mom. She cooks for you even if her body temperature is burning hot. She fights all to take care of you. Yeah I know you guys might still not be satisfied by this answer. Well then I must tell you a scientific fact: the pain while delivering a baby is approx. to the pain of some 200+ bones breaking at the same time. Is this answer satisfactory? Also, the pain while having menstruation happens every month and that's really painful too. So yeah women go through a lot of pain and I haven't even started telling you guys about the mental pressure. Don't worry I'm not gonna tell you that, I don't want you to die of guilty. So basically for all that pain women deserve to feel nice. Pulling chair for her, opening doors and stuff are just "nice" things to do. So there's nothing wrong with them expecting it.

But girls, don't think if I'm taking your side means its all just guy's fault. Because sometimes its women's fault too and most specifically those gossip queens who stand outside their houses and bitch about 'how girls should live and its totally fine if a guy teases a girl because well he is a guy and that's  just how guys are'. Sometimes I really wonder if all of those women had sex change operation and turned into women from a guy, because for me its really hard to say stupid stuff like that to a girl since I am a girl. I mean, tomorrow you'll say global warming is girls fault too since they are increasing the population by birthing children and those children become people and then get cars. I mean seriously why don't these aunties just shut up and go back to the time when they used to cry for stuff and nobody really cared about them because they were girls. These women are the actual reason why the society never appreciate women and treat them as just some thing which produces baby for the population growth and prepares food for them, cleans their home and stuff.

I can write as long as I can but I don't want to because those who want to understand can understand even by reading this much and those who don't want to, well... you can't teach them anything anyways.

So here I go ending this post with a simple message:

You don't have to change the world neither have to make it 'male dominant' or 'female dominant' all you have to do is "fix it", Fix this world with all your efforts. It's neither the fault of males nor females that the world is like this, 'biased' to be precise. It's never your fault its just the fault of some who made our minds accept this nonsense. So just stop listening to them and use your own mind and do good . 
Men, treat your women nicely because she deserves it. Women, treat your men right because they go through shit and that "all men are bad" bias too.

P.S. Stop thinking all men are same and women are weak. Because none of these statements are true. And remember your not a male or a women at first because  you are a human first. So be a good human first.

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